The Message of the Arrows
1 Samuel 20:1-42
Intro As we look at this episode in the life of David we should keep in mind that God, from eternity, had purposed to bless
David and use him mightily
A)We have seen God
establish David as a man after God’s own heart while he was a shepherd boy
B)We have seen God call and anoint David to be King...... raise up David
as a Champion of Israel and deliver Goliath into his hands
1) We have seen God preserve
David’s life and give him a song of gladness
in the face of death
C) But at this
particular point we find David going through a trial which tested his faith and
endurance to the limit
1) Every outward circumstance seemed to contradict
God’s plan for David’s life..... His circumstances made God’s promises to look
like lies.
D)
That can happen to us at times too – In those circumstances – we have to come
to that place where we have to decide what are we going to be ruled by
1)
Are we going to be ruled by our circumstances that presently make no
sense to us
2) Or are we going to be ruled by What we know to be true about God !!!
See all of us Struggle with doubts & things
that we don’t understand – about God or about Situations –
A) I have had times in
my life of just utter confusion / despair / times where I FELT ABANDONED BY GOD
– WHERE ARE YOU LORD
B) But it is in those
moments that we have to cling to what we do Know : What do we Know?
C)
God is faithful / God keeps His promises / true & righteous are His ways –
And He is always working w/ your best interest in mind
1) Been walking with him for 29yrs – Never let me down – Stories in the Bible – He is never late / uninterested – Always involved & on TIME
When I look
back on those times in my life now I see exactly what God was doing –
Brilliant perfect – things have turned
out way better than imagined
A) Joseph had the same
realization – in his life – Looking back – He understood – told his Bros / You meant evil God good to save many
B) And David will look
back at this time in his life – He will see & understand
God’s hand in it –
1)
How God was actually
going to use this time – to make David into Israel’s greatest king of all time
– accept for Jesus Himself
C) But sometimes in the mist of these times it
can be tough – In this Chapter we see David struggling
1) Now It’s a comfort to know that even a man of God such as David could begin to buckle under pressure
D) We pick the story up
in Chapter 20:1 with David fleeing Saul and going
to Jonathan RD VERSES 1-3
NOTE THE TONE
OF VOICE
A)David was uptight even despairing- As the pressure is building
– David isn’t handling it very well.
B) Because -David was NOT as conscious of God’s presence and
protection as he was of his own fear
– RP Fear
Greatest enemy of our faith
Bb) Fear causes Despair
– fear blows things out of Proportion: My Girls are afraid of Bugs - Dad there is a Giant bug in my ROOM –
1) It this Big - 5 ft
long
C) Fear of Heights – 20
feet becomes 80 ft really easily
D) At this
point in David’s life The pressure is building so bad is beginning to even Doubt his friends
1)
Says to Jonathan
in v.1 What have I done – what iniquity is in me
that your father should treat me like this
Now Jonathan tries to encourage David in v.2 by saying look My Dad would
tell me – if – He was still out to get you –
B) Remember Saul in
Ch.19 Gave Jonathan his word he would leave David alone
C) V.3 David says Get real – You Know there is one step …. Me & death
D) This reveals David’s discouragement.
1) He knows that Saul
has attempted to kill him many times, and it seems that Saul will not quit
until David is gone.
E) David feels that his
death is inevitable, and that he is walking
on a slippery plank over
a great canyon.
4 So Jonathan said to David, "Whatever you
yourself desire, I will do it for you."
A) Now I find
it refreshing that Jonathan offers this word of Encouragement
B) I think many would
have been tempted to rebuke David – WHERE YOUR FAITH BROTHER – WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU
1) Jonathan is a true
friend here – Look I am with you – on your side
Rd v.5-17
This
Shows Jonathan had greater faith in God’s promises than David did at this
time: Jonathan
knows David is destined to be King
A)In response, Jonathan
makes David commit himself in a covenant.
You shall not cut
off your kindness for my house forever:
B) In that day, when one
royal house replaced another, it was common for the new royal house to kill all
the potential rulers from the old royal house. 1) Jonathan knew that one day, David and his descendants would
rule over Israel,
C) And he wants David to promise that David and
his descendants will not kill or mistreat the descendants of Jonathan.
1)
So they make this
Covenant w/ each other Jonathan and David agreed to care for one another.
D) Jonathan agreed to
care for David in the face of Saul’s threat, and David agreed to care for
Jonathan and his family in the future
VERSES 18-24
David
had to wait for that fateful moment when a matter of a few yards would decide
his future
A)Either he would go back to Saul’s house back to the comfort of Jonathans friendship / Back
to familiar, secure surroundings
B) Or he would go into exile without a friend to turn to- Having to cast himself totally
upon the mercy of God
1) One of
these would be God’s path for David to lead to the Throne !!!!
The decision was completely OUT OF David’s hands
A)All he could do was to stand by a stone & wait for an arrow that would point to the palace or the wilderness
B)The pressure of the
circumstances brought David to that place where the decision
was not his to make
1) That is exactly what God does through our circumstances
Bb) They drive us to the
place where we can NOT decide the way….should go / to the place where GOD DECIDES THE WAY
1) V 19
David was told to wait at the stone Ezel = the stone that shows the way/ the stone of Destiny
C) For every Christian - in every circumstance of life we have a stone
to wait at - a stone that shows the way
1) Daniel 2:34 tells us that it is a stone “cut out without
hands”
1 Peter 2:4 Peter calls it “a living stone”
2) Isaiah 28:16 Isaiah calls it “a foundation
stone, a precious corner stone,
a sure foundation”
D) Jesus Christ is our
stone of Ezel
RP “Jesus is our stone of destiny rooted in a rugged hillside
outside of the city of Jerusalem. There we understand that he bore our burden /
he is the great burden bearer – the pressure of the burdens we face no matter
what they may be are rolled away when we bring them & leave them at his
feet .
Are you in a
predicament, unable to turn this way of that.
A)It is a glorious
position to be in: when your hands are off the situation only he can guide.
B)All you can do is what
David did as he took his stand at his stone of destiny & waited.
It is
good thing to be in a position like that when all you can do is take your stand
at Calvary & wait.
A)When all you can do is
come to Christ and wait you are in a great place.
B)NOTE: So many paths seem far more
attractive than others
1)
Humanly speaking,
there are many alternatives more attractive than
God’s way
C)
But - There is only one way for you and
I that leads to the throne/ that place of Promise that God has for you
D) We need to let God
decide that path (Remember there is only one right path to accomplish that work of God in your life.)
1)
Die to the temptation to run or to meander pursue any other Alternative
RP: A throne is God’s purpose for you A cross is God’s path for you
Faith is God’s plan for
V.25-34
So Jonathan
& David come up w/ this plan –
A)Now most commentators believe I agree that David did go down to Bethlehem / came back at the appointed time – wait in the field
B) The first
day of the feast Saul noticed that David was not there, but he thought that
perhaps he was absent because he was ceremonially unclean.
1) A soldier
could become ritualistically unclean for a lot of different reason, so this would have not been uncommon.
C) All
that an unclean person had to was to change clothes, go through some ritual
cleansings, and refrain from the first night of feast.
1) That made them clean
and able to participate the second night.
D) But
the second night comes and still, there is no David, now Saul knows
something is wrong.
1) And he asks about him and Jonathan
tells his Dad that David has gone to see his Family This puts Saul over the
edge
E) When Saul finds out – he is incensed – Yells
at Jonathan -"You son of a perverse,
rebellious woman!"
1) This was a horrible statement to make –
Because in doing so – Saul was suggesting that Jonathan was the son of a whore
– No royal blood in
veins
F) Jonathan knew from this response that Saul’s heart was settled on evil
against David.
These were "Taunts that were
intended to instill into Jonathan’s heart the poison which was working in his
own." (Meyer)
A) The poison was
running so thick in Saul’s veins he even– throws a spear at his own Son –
B)
Before we leave this section I want you to see one more downward step in the
spiral of jealousy.
1) Remember that Saul’s jealousy started out with love, he loved David, he loved his ministry.
C) But the love turned into suspicion, the suspicion turned into rage, and rage turned into attempted murder.
1) At first the attempted murder is directed at one who was classified as an enemy.
D) Now the attempted murder is directed at his own
son. Jealousy and anger have a life of
their own, we
don’t control them, they control us.
1) And
they will take us places we could never imagine going.
E) Could Saul have ever
imagined that he would try to kill his own son? No
way, but he did.
1) That is the slippery
slope of Jealousy. Rd V.35-42
Now Picture
David waiting at the stone of Ezel
A)From a distance he
hears his friend coming out to him
B)Jonathan, as if he is
at target practice takes an arrow and shoots it
David anxiously watches
its flight as it arches over him & lands beyond him.
C) Imagine his feelings
at that moment...... He knew it meant
the Lord was sending him away/
1) Such a small thing – the signal of a single arrow –
told David his whole Life would be forever changed.
D) He would no longer be welcome at the palace. He would no
longer be welcome among the army of Israel.
1) He would no longer be able to go home.
E) David now knew he
would have to live as a fugitive, on the run from an angry, jealous king
determined to destroy him.
Sometimes
our lives can radically turn on a small thing. One night of carelessness may
change a girl’s life forever.
A)One night with the
wrong crowd may give a boy an arrest record.
B)It often times does
not seem fair that so much in life should turn on small moments, but a lifetime is made of nothing but many small moments!
C) In David’s case - It
was no chance thing that the arrow fell where it did
1) It had come from the hand of God
D)The arrows weren’t
from Jonathan’s hand alone/ He was just the instrument The arrow was from the
hand of God and it was right on target
1) It showed him God’s will
E) God will use different instruments in our lives – The words
of a friend / a Doctor’s diagnosis – The instructions of an employer –
1)
But Know this Behind
that arrow was God’s loving purpose for David
See
with every arrow there is a road, with every arrow God is saying, “this way is
shut, now come this way”
A) In most cases, it’s a
road we don’t want to go down, it’s a road that seems dark and dangerous, , but God says, “this is My
road, Will you walk in it?
B) God wants us to say
with Jesus, not my will, but thy will be done?
1) Because here is what you are
resigning your self to, a road that will make you into the person who God wants you to be !!!
C) For David
to be David, the man after God’s own heart, he had to walk down this road. He
had to say yes to God.
1) He
had to accept that this was the road that God had chosen for him.
D) This was part of the plan that God had in
mind to make David into the greatest King in Israel’s History 2nd
only to Jesus
Have you
accepted the road that God has chosen for you?
A) Have you come to grips with the fact that this road is God’s will for your life
and that you are going to accept it because you know that your heavenly Father
knows best?
B) Or are you still kicking against the goads, are you
still trying to worm your way, or buy
your way, out of it.
1) Only you know, if you
have come to grips in your heart of hearts with the arrow of God that flew over
your head & opened up a new road before you..
If
David lingered now, after this word from heaven, he would lose
his life, the crown and all that God had
for him
A)It was of Divine
necessity that he move/ Every security he had........ Every prop he leaned on
was taken away
B) Swindol – “Sometimes our tendency is to fill our lives w/ Crutches –
People & things that we are leaning on”
1) But Sometimes those Crutches become
substitutes for God – Instead of leaning on Him we are leaning on something
else / or someone else
C) Some people turn to
other people to be their Crutches their spouse / friend / inappropriate
friendship – ( Share treasure w/ no one but your
spouse )
1)
Where your treasure is
your heart will be there also
D)Some turn to booze or
drugs – Helps me relax – Read the Bible – Praise tape /
1) Some work out – Something to escape the
pressures – mask it distract me for an hr. or two
E) Others It is work – easier to just work –70hrs a
week than to deal w/ a marriage that is crumbling -
Crutches have
a tendency to keep our focus horizontal
–
A)See When you are
leaning on another person or another thing – your focus is always Side ways –
Horizontal instead of Vertical –
Human
Crutches paralyze the walk of faith
B)Crutches offer only
temporary relief – Like taking a aspirin – mask the pain / tranquilizing people
from the experiences & storms of life
C)
God doesn’t want to give temporary relief – He wants
to give permanent solution – If we
truly seek Him- If we truly surrender all to Him /
1) If we are consistent & diligent in
seeking Him in prayer & thru the word – He will show us / He will speak to
us
Duet.33:27
“The eternal God is a dwelling place, And
underneath are the everlasting arms;
Isa 41:10 ‘Do not fear, for I am with you;Do not anxiously look
about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you,
Surely I will uphold you with My righteous
right hand.’
So at this
point in David’s life it was just He & God
A)Every security he
had........ Every prop he leaned on was taken away
He must stand alone with God
B) Behind him was
comfort, friendship and home / Now David had nothing but God!
1) It is eye opening
when you see what else you are leaning on instead of the Lord
C) Me in Oregon – Hard time but it was a Great time –
Nothing but me
1)
Satisfaction
had to be in God alone – no matter what
direction He chose
to bring me
The
Chapter ends w/ these words concerning David -So he arose and departed:
A)David will not return
to "normal life" until Saul is dead and David is king.
B)This is a pretty bleak
road for David to walk, but it is God’s road for him.
1)
Pretty bleak road but
this bleak road is important in David’s life, because if God will put David in
a place where people must depend on him,
C) God will teach David to depend upon God alone. Not
himself, not Saul, not Jonathan, not anyone except God
This
bleak road is important in David’s life, because if David will be safe now and
promoted to king later,
A)David must learn to
let God be his defense and his promoter.
B) And This bleak road is ….in David’s life, because if David
is to be set in a great position of authority, David must learn to submit to
God’s authority,
C) That meant even in
these difficult times when he didn’t understand what was going on – He had to cling to what He knew to be True of the Lord
QUOTE: Alan Redpath:
A throne is God’s purpose for you
A cross is God’s path for you
Faith is God’s plan for you